Comments on: Birthday

By: Sharon (lilybaggins)

Sharon (lilybaggins) — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 17:08:52 +0000

Hello Sam
I never get on madmums too much these days Im afraid, but I always think of you all, and especially how you are getting on Sam.
Im so sorry to read your heartbreaking experience , my thoughts and love sending over in abundance. I really cannot find the right words to say and I know nothing will ever take away the pain you, K and your family must be feeling. Always in my thoughts
Big hugs and love
lilybagginsxxxxxx

By: Lorna

Lorna — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 08:26:25 +0000

Hi Same, Wow, what a hard encounter to read, brought tears to my eyes, especially when your going through a miscarriage at the time. I felt like I was there with you. This must have been the hardest thing you have ever had to wrote down, yet in some ways I feel it brought you relief and comfort too. Heart hurts and goes out to you and your family xxx

By: Myrrien

Myrrien — Tue, 02 Sep 2008 21:32:24 +0000

Hello Sam, I followed your link from bounty and was struck by your story, you write with such dignity. As I know all so well there is little that can be said to lessen the pain of such a terrible loss. All I can possibly say is that Fin is such a beautiful name and that my thoughts are with you.

By: Helen Bensmum

Helen Bensmum — Mon, 18 Aug 2008 12:22:33 +0000

What a brave person you are to write all this! It sounds like a wonderful hospital and a fitting end to all the worry and heartache. My thoughts and prayers are with you all, always xx

By: julie (jecko)

julie (jecko) — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 21:21:22 +0000

Sam and Keith, with tears streaming down my face this is the most moving thing i have ever read in my life so perfectly written - I know no words i write will ease your pain i just want to tell you both im thinking of you at this very sad time - Finley is such a beautiful name for a beautiful baby and im so glad you got to spend sometime with him hold him and cuddle him, my thoughts are with you all.
Rest in peace little Fin
love Jue, Carl, Molly and Jessie xxxx

By: Greedy

Greedy — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 20:25:00 +0000

Sam, Keith, what can I say, I have only just been able to log on to see how you were getting on. I am so very sorry for your loss. I am only glad that you were able to hold your baby and say your goodbyes, Rest in peace baby Fin, Julie, xxx

By: Allen

Allen — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 15:59:44 +0000

Sam, Keith; thank you for sharing.

After composing myself, so many thoughts are here. I can’t imagine the loss and despair of losing a child. I cried, tears flowing as I read your words - “listening in” as you and Keith made decisions and struggled through this.

I wish there was something I could do or say to help w/ your family’s pain. In this respect though, you have helped and inspired me w/ your story. A time full of pain and despair and yet I feel the grace, humility, compassion and love at work in you and Keith. Thank you, it must have been hard to share this pain. My gut hurts and I wish I could think of something “right and good” to say, but you already have.

Rest in peace Fin

By: Kim (Angelica72)

Kim (Angelica72) — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 11:33:37 +0000

Sam and Keith - I am so sorry for your loss - there really are no words to convey what I’d like to say to you both. I am glad you had peaceful time with your little one, after such a difficult day. Rest in peace wee Fin. You are all in my thoughts.xxx

By: Zany

Zany — Sat, 16 Aug 2008 20:29:46 +0000

Sam you are really a fantastic caring mum. I can not being to imagine how hard it was for you to say good bye (even though i am choked with tears) but i am pleased that you had such a lovely and peaceful time with Fin, may he rest in peace, he knows how much you both loved him. K it is such a lovely idea, so tender and sweet to say your final good byes in wales. I’m glad you are both able to be there for each other. You are both in my thoughts always.
Love and hugs to all, Fin rest in peace knowing you where loved as much as two beautiful caring people could possibly love a child… you will always be loved and never forgotten.
Deepest sympathies to you both x

Tsena xx

By: Hannah (purplekangaroo)

Hannah (purplekangaroo) — Sat, 16 Aug 2008 20:15:12 +0000

How beautifully you write Sam - I have been thinking about you all a lot so glad you got to hold your little baby he sounds beautiful and what a lovely name - I will be thinking of you both - my thoughts are with you xx